Are you ready for an upgrade to everything?
Men, I have something to share. So, I developed The Upgrade to deliver it.
It’s a collection of tools to help you:
find spiritual connection to everything (even if you think that stuff isn’t for you)
develop raw, authentic relationships where you discover who you really are
effortlessly exercise and eat right, from a place of pure animal joy
blast through mental limits and show up for everything in your life
Don’t get me wrong, The Upgrade isn’t built on a “secret formula”—and I definitely don’t want to leave the impression that this is easy.
But that’s what makes it an adventure.
So, what exactly is it?
Coaching (sort of): The Upgrade works a lot like coaching. We’ll schedule four sessions (either in-person or over Zoom) for the first month, and then tweak the pacing for the next five months. This is where I teach you the tools, and it’s where we figure out the exact path ahead.
Initiation: The Upgrade requires passing through certain thresholds. These aren’t the same for everyone, but they are essential to your path. These initiations will break open new possibilities in your life.
Training: Unlike a lot of coaching, The Upgrade includes training certain skills. What does this mean? You will be receiving feedback. A lot of this feedback will not be easy to hear. It will not be based on you feeling good in the moment. But I guarantee you will learn to crave feedback.
Beyond: The Upgrade contains elements that will expand your understanding of the universe and your power in it. I’ll just leave it at that for now…
Start that adventure right away. Or, read on to learn more.
Who is The Upgrade for?
If any of the following resonate with you, then The Upgrade might be the right fit:
reliance on drugs, alcohol, vape, kratom, etc. to get through things
lackluster relationships that always seem to cause more problems
bad (or no) sex, leaving you wanting something you just never seem to get
reliance on pornography to calm the mind
yearning for purpose and meaning in your life
fear that, as you keep getting older, you aren’t living up to your potential
things like meditation never quite working for you
desire to go on an adventure
Turn back now if…
This section is my disclaimer. The Upgrade isn’t for everybody. I built it for men who are seeking a total fucking paradigm shift in their life.
This is not for those looking to get:
“therapy” (The Upgrade can lead to so much healing, but it has nothing to do with today’s therapy culture)
an “easy way” to do anything (The Upgrade builds a ferocious appetite for the edge and a repulsion to the “easy”)
“appropriate” advice (The Upgrade, when it’s really cooking, is a challenge to basically every sacred cow and belief system you find online today)
a “guru” (I teach you the tools and help you get The Upgrade, but I am not a guru, and the program ends with you able to give The Upgrade to others)
And because this is for men specifically, let’s just get this out of the way. The Upgrade is a warm-hearted challenge to those who are stuck in the current debate between “feminism” and “traditional values/red pill” or whatever they are calling the sides these days.
The people in these camps aren’t wrong. The entire debate is wrong. Men serve a cosmic function, and this debate has lowered the terms of man and woman to the level of bickering siblings.
If you are ready to let that shit go, start The Upgrade right now.
How I Got the Upgrade
It was 2018, and I didn’t know it could be this way.
I didn’t know I could find a profound spiritual connection to my life. And I had no idea how much this would make every day of my life feel like a hero’s journey.
I didn’t know that I could heal my relationships, even with those people I hurt the most and who hurt me the most. In fact, I wasn’t even trying to do that because I didn’t realize this was the key to true freedom.
I didn’t know the levels of sheer physical well-being I could attain. Hell, I still thought that alcohol felt good and men couldn’t have endless orgasms (more on that later).
I didn’t know that clarity, focus, creativity, and memory were possible without chemicals. Back then, I still thought I needed to take nootropics or Adderall to feel mentally stimulated.
But then 2018 happened, and everything became possible.
At the time, I thought my world was ending. My grandmother, who helped raise me, had died. My girlfriend of many years left. I dropped out of law school. And then, a friend severed our connection. He said my drinking led to unacceptable jokes that hurt him deeply. He told a lot of people, and many of them agreed.
What the fuck was going on?
In mourning, heartbroken, lost, and canceled.
The perfect time for an upgrade.
Over the course of the next several years, I changed everything. I drew from a lot of self-help practices, psychological theories, magical systems, religions, and hypertrophy systems. I learned about disciplines I never thought would come into my life.
Then, two years ago, I met a teacher who put the last element in place. This made everything click.
It’s a practice called circling. The Upgrade is built on this as its foundational layer.
Circling gives me the power, more than sitting meditation ever did, to watch my experience as it happened. That has allowed me to understand what all those spiritual teachings (like the ones in the Tao Te Ching and the Bhagavad Gita) were trying to tell me.
Circling gives you a place to actually exercise spiritual wisdom and figure out how to do it in every moment of your life. It’s just like lifting weights but for your soul.
With this practice in place, my entire life transformed. I…
quit drinking alcohol and doing drugs
quit porn and discovered the endless male orgasm
found a state beyond happiness, a state of bliss
became confident on a level I didn’t know was possible
fell in love with my life and all the people in it
unlocked new levels of mental clarity and physical fitness
Before The Upgrade, I was deeply misled and asleep. I had rejected so much of myself that needed to heal. I had downloaded so many wrong ideas about life. I had focused so hard on being a good person that I couldn’t grow.
Instead of masculinity being a generator of power and potential, it was smothering me in demands and confusion. But The Upgrade sorted that out, showing me that my own masculinity is the source of everything I have—which is why I now have so much more respect for all my brothers and sisters on earth.
The Upgrade allowed me to:
unleash my inner beast
heal my deepest fucking wounds
make peace with both father and mother
become horny for my life
enjoy desire for women without being ruled by them
see things clearly (or at least understand when I don’t see things clearly)
If you are a man seeking more, I have these things to offer.
The first step is reaching out for a free call.
Pricing for The Upgrade
Pricing for The Upgrade is simple.
$100 per hour-long session
4 sessions in the first month ($400)
1-4 sessions each month after that ($100-400)
You will likely need about six months in total. That means the total cost ranges from $900 to $2,400—depending on your needs and preferences.
Of course, once you get The Upgrade, there are other mysteries to explore. But I’ll tell you about that when it’s the right time.
And so, it begins.